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The shorts of the Summer

June 24, 2020

At some point early in quarantine when I put myself on a serious shopping hiatus, I just so happened to check my promotions folder on my email and came across a note from Universal Standard with a ‘mystery offer’. Do you ever click those? Everytime I have in the past, the mystery offer has been piddly but this time I just knew it was going to be $50. I just knew it!

I clicked over to the site and I immediately added a pair of biker shorts to cart. At that time, they were $55 (now $65). I didn’t even really think about it. I pasted the promo code into my browser and there it was: $50 off. Can you believe it!? I still get that giddy feeling when I think about that moment and my $5 shorts.

The shorts arrived and I put them on my body and I swear to the good lord that I have never felt something so soft and sweet and buttery. I immediately declared them the shorts of the Summer. I wasn’t wrong. I reach for those shorts the moment they come from the wash and they are, hands down, the most comfortable piece of clothing I own right now.

I laugh a little bit because, honestly, these shorts are fugly. I distinctly remember when I saw my first instagrammer wearing them last year. Ewwww. Who wants to wear something so unflattering? I swore up and down that I would never be caught dead in a pair, which is what I say about basically every fashion trend I notice and then, a few months later, there I am rocking it with my bad self. It’s like a fashion amnesia. It’s not that I suddenly think these shorts are the most flattering, cute shorts ever. It’s just that they feel SO great that the comfort exceeds the fashion. Lately, I have no patience for clothes that aren’t comfortable. Function over form, especially this Summer while we’re still at home.

I feel happy to have the opportunity to share size-inclusive Universal Standard with you all here. I am a longtime fan whose love was rekindled via a $50 coupon offer. I have the Geneva dress, which is just about the most perfect dress I’ve ever owned. I know that it’s a bit spendy on the site, but it’s clothes I feel good in and also feel good about supporting. My goal is to make more purchases like that. I think I’d rather have fewer clothes that are made well and ethically than a closet full of more affordable clothes with questionable origins. Universal Standard doesn’t champion a sustainability message at this time, but they are radically committed to inclusivity with their brand. If you want to try them out, leave a comment below and I’ll contact you via email with an offer through their referral program where you’ll get a FREE t-shirt and I will get $25. I have three offers to share.

If you’re not able to spend $65 on a pair of shorts right now, trust me, I understand. I also researched an option on Amazon that’s more affordable because I want you to enjoy the magical Shorts of the Summer. These bad boys are just $20.99 and are a really great value for the price. I have a pair of the 5 inch shorts that I’ve been wearing around the house lately. They’re not as buttery and cloud-like as the Universal Standard option, but they are perfectly great for a third of the price.

What do you think of the biker shorts trend? Are they the shorts of the Summer for you? Let me know!

just for fun, Style

Under $20 Fashion Finds to add a little spice to your Work from Home life

April 16, 2020

I know that we’re technically working from home (if we’re working at all!) and it doesn’t really matter what we wear, but I had a moment the other day when I went to put on the same old ratty t-shirt and sweats yet again and I just wanted to cry. No surprise, I’m seriously lacking in the informal wear department because in non-Covid times I basically go to work, go to dance or stay home in my PJs. I’m not wanting to spend even a penny right now and I certainly don’t want to invest in an entire leisurewear wardrobe, but I got a 20% off code from ASOS this weekend and down the rabbit hole I went. All told, I spent $28 on three new items that filled my heart with a brief dose of consumerist joy that I want to share with you all.

Oh, and if you’re wanting to head over to ASOS to do a little shopping of your own, here’s an affiliate link for you to get 15% off your first order. If you buy something, I’ll get 15% off too. I’m trying to shift to more sustainable fashion, but I will always love ASOS because they are so size-inclusive and always have been.

First up is this simple light sweater for $13. I want to live in this every single day. Let’s be honest, I definitely will…

I also love this little baby blue number. So soft, so simple, but I feel like the flutter sleeve brings a lil’ somethin’ to the party. $4.50!

Last, but certainly not least, Tie Dye! I’m doing it. My teenage self is mortified that I am dipping my toes in these waters. I thought: I’ll get a SUPER oversized t-shirt, like a men’s XXL so it can be all loose and flowy and maybe I’ll just wear the t-shirt by itself like a dress a la the Kardashians. And then it came and it fit me like a normal shirt and I laughed and realized that sizing is totally whack, but I still dig the shirt.

Thanks for letting me share my mirror selfies with you all. I’m seriously happy to have a couple of new items to wear these days. It’s the little things that brighten the day-to-day.

Do you have any fun work from home clothes? Please feel free to share your favorite resources in the comments! I’m all about it…

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Here’s Why I’m Cancelling my Rent the Runway Subscription

February 26, 2020

When I embarked on my trial of Rent the Runway Unlimited, I did it with a lot of excitement. I couldn’t wait to share my killer outfits with you all and I had a lot of optimism about the experience. After trying it for about two months, I can clearly and definitively say that the service isn’t for me. Literally, it’s not designed for people like me who are living in a bigger body in this world.

Before I hop into the reasons why I’m cancelling my membership, I do want to highlight some positive features from my experience:

  • Great technology. Shopping on the site is really easy. I love that they have integrated pictures of the pieces on ‘real’ people via the pictures submitted with reviews. When pictures were available, this helped immensely to see how the outfit would fit different bodies.
  • Good operations. The pieces showed up reliably in 2-3 days. I really liked the reusable garment bags and the pre-printed shipping labels that would slot into the garment bags. Bonus points for the recycling of the bags and hangers. I appreciated that they handed those details and did what they could to make their company more sustainable.

Now, for my main issue with Rent the Runway Unlimited:

They don’t serve bigger bodies well.

I didn’t realize how much of a discrepancy there was between their larger offerings and their straight sizes until I saw this post by Emily Henderson where she reviewed the service and had some really cute stuff to share. I never saw items remotely that good! I typically have to dig and dig within the site to find four items that I think could work well for me and my body. I usually ended up renting really generic stuff that had flexible material with a hope that it would fit me. When I tried to go with pieces that were a bit more ‘fashion forward’, I always paid the price for that risk because the pieces that were sent to me in my normal size were too small. To see the cool, fashionable stuff available to Emily because she is living in a smaller body really made me angry because they are charging me the exact same amount to use their service and they are under-serving me compared to more conventionally acceptable body sizes.

And…

I’m about to crawl up on my soap box here, but I’m technically a ‘normal’ sized woman! I wear a size 14, which is literally the average size of an American woman these days. So, they are a company that claims to serve women and be size-inclusive, but it is just lip service because they do not provide a reliable and comparable selection that accommodates all women. I go to their website and see that they are claiming that their mission is to make women feel empowered and and self-confident, but I really had to check myself while using their service numerous times and remind myself that my size isn’t my self-worth and there isn’t something wrong with my body because it doesn’t happen to fit into the clothes they decide to buy for their customers.

I do not enjoy being a critic. I went back and forth numerous times about even writing this post, but telling the truth about my experience with the service is my responsibility because I literally signed up for Rent the Runway Unlimited to write about it here on my blog. I feel that they are doing a poor job being inclusive with their offerings and I believe they have a responsibility to address these issues or they should simply not offer clothing for women of my size or larger because to take our money without offering a comparable service to us isn’t ethical.

However, I don’t want to just sit here and complain without offering solutions. I’ve thought of a few ways they can improve their offerings for women in larger bodies:

  • Match clothing offerings to actual body measurements. For example, the last time I used the service to go on our vacation to Hawaii, I ordered two different tops all in XXL because I wanted to make sure they would fit me. One top was so tight on my arms I couldn’t wear it comfortably while the other was so big I was swimming in it. If they had matched those tops to my actual measurements and then recommended the correct size, I could’ve avoided multiple issues with their service. This benefit would help all of their customers because it would ensure that rentals fit, thus making more happy customers.
  • Stock the work of incredible designers who already serve larger bodies. Christian Siriano is amazing. Asos Curve has kick-ass product. Maria Rinaldi has clothes I covet. Eileen Fisher! Why are these amazing brands not on Rent the Runway Unlimited in a major way in my size? At the very least, reward the designers who are creating compelling clothes for bigger bodies.
  • Demand that designers offer inclusive sizing by refusing to carry them on Rent the Runway unless they make their offerings more size-inclusive. I have to imagine that RTR has become a powerhouse buyer for some of these brands like who are notoriously non-inclusive. Why give them a seat at the table if they do not deserve it?

If you’re living in this world in a smaller body, this post probably seems a bit dramatic. Maybe you’re even thinking that a great solution would be for me to lose a few pounds instead of demanding that Rent the Runway Unlimited change its practices. Trust me, I tried for most of my life to fall within a more socially acceptable body size, but I just don’t. That’s what we call victim blaming. My body isn’t the problem. The problem is a company that is claiming to be size-inclusive and happily taking my money without providing a fair exchange for those dollars. Further, this is a KNOWN complaint about their service that they are not addressing. Just look at the comments on Emily’s post to see the numerous people above a size 14 complaining about the service.

I tried my best to be non-ranty in this review, but I’m not sure I was successful. In short, please do not spend your money on Rent the Runway Unlimited whether you are in a ‘bigger’ body or you’re in a more ‘conventionally acceptable’ body until they truly address these major concerns with the service and do a better job of serving ALL of their customers.

I’m considering trying other rental subscription services to see if they provide a better offering for me, but to tell you the truth I’m just a bit tired right now. I think I’ll take a little break from clothing rental for the next few months.

What do you think? I’d love to hear your thoughts about this post. What could I do better? How do you feel about Rent the Runway Unlimited after reading my review?