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May 2020

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What we’re eating this week…

May 31, 2020

Whew. Things are heavy right now, huh? I just finally pulled out my debit card and donated to an organization working to post bail for protesters. I’ve been sitting with the heaviness for days now, doing what I can. I hope you are too.

We still need to eat, though, especially in times where our hearts are hurting. Here’s what I’m planning to cook for my family this week. Maybe you will take inspiration and prepare a home cooked meal for your loved ones as well.

  • I’m craving stir fry lately. I bought a stir fry kit and some Hodo tofu (honestly the best tofu I’ve ever come across). I’m planning to crisp up the tofu in the oven using some cornstarch and the mix it with a simple stir fry sauce like this. If I go to the store before dinner, I think I’ll also make my favorite cucumber salad to go with it.
  • I’m obsessed with my drop biscuits recipe, but I also want to explore buttermilk biscuits. I have some buttermilk in my fridge this week leftover from Ian’s lemon cake, so now’s the time. Maybe we’ll do a breakfast for dinner situation and have fried eggs with our biscuits. yum!
  • The name of the game for me lately is salad. Can’t get enough. I’m going to make this elote salad for sure. I also really need to try this Chopped Thai Salad. Wow, that looks good.
  • Keith really likes salmon. I am just meh about it, but I think I’ll be a good partner this week and pick up some salmon for us to grill. Salmon just screams for roasted sweet potatoes, doesn’t it? Plus some sauteed kale? Okay, I can get behind it.
  • Lastly, Beef & Ginger Stir Fry with white rice. I made this once before and adored it. Need a repeat.

What are you cooking this week?

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Damn Delicious: Ina’s Lemon Cake, plus a sweet sixteen birthday for Ian

May 30, 2020

Ian turned 16 this week. I’ve known this young man since he was six. He is growing into an adult before our eyes. Every time I see him he is at least an inch taller.

What a weird dichotomy to celebrate the life of a wonderful young man amidst the passing of George Floyd. The world is unsafe for Ian and for Keith and for Keith Junior. I hold my breath every time they leave the house, praying for their safe return, wishing I could be with them everywhere they go to literally protect them from danger.

I can’t actually change the world, but I can continue to show up and do my best. This week, we saw again just how much needs to change. We all did. There is a deep well of sadness in the air, but we have to keep pushing forward and reaching for the life we dream of that is free of racism and safe for EVERYONE. Black lives matter so much. Ian’s life matters.

This week, I texted and called and advocated and I also baked a cake.

I got to celebrate a wonderful young man turning sixteen. I called the birthday boy and asked him what kind of cake he wanted just like I do every year. For the past few years, he’s wanted an ice cream cake from Baskin Robbins. This year, he requested a lemon cake.

What sixteen year old wants lemon cake?

I don’t particularly like lemon cake, but I’d do anything for Ian so I started researching lemon cakes online. Ina won, of course. Her cake is a beast. You have to zest eight lemons. She perplexingly calls for extra large eggs in her baking, which I don’t understand.

Why not regular eggs?

The lemon cake recipe makes enough for two loaf cakes. Cake by the pound. I made one loaf and a dozen cupcakes. You have to make the cake and then a simple lemon syrup to pour over it while it’s still warm and then top it off with a lemon confectioner sugar icing before serving.

It’s a lot of steps. Oh, and did I mention that Oakland had a heat wave this week and I made this cake in my 90 degree kitchen? I was sweating from the heat and from baking something that is a bit outside of my baking comfort zone.

But, when Ian was here and we got to celebrate his life, it felt so worth it. Keith made his famous fried chicken and the boys hung out and explored our new neighborhood. We sang happy birthday to him and there was real, true joy as we dug into our lemon cake together. I hope he knows how loved he is and how much we want him to be safe and happy always.

Happy birthday to Ian. Let’s continue to fight for a better world for him and for our youngsters.

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hello – I missed you.

May 25, 2020

We’ve been in the thick of moving for weeks now, which means that life is just completely upside-down and I’ve been utterly consumed by orchestrating this change in our lives.

BUT.

I’ve missed the blog during this little hiatus.

I can’t wait to get back here. I have so many fun things I want to share. I’d like to share how we found our house, how we’re decorating thus far, organization updates, some fun fashion posts and so much cooking.

How are you doing? Are you still quarantining or is life opening up ever so slowly for you? I feel completely conflicted about everything related to covid and opening things back up. I just don’t feel like I have the capacity to educate myself on the risks, so I just try to follow the current rules in place here in our county and wait.

Sending so much love to you on this Memorial Day.

-Meesh