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November 2019

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What I Wore this Week

November 29, 2019

I love style and getting dressed every morning, so I’d like to share my daily outfits with you all every week.

I don’t fool myself thinking that I’m some fashion maven, but I love the idea of doing this series because it will help me see how my style evolves (or not!) over time. I also hope it shares what it looks like to get dressed when you are a ‘real’ person, not a fashion blogger. I want to show my real, oft-repeated outfits because I think it will help bring a dose of reality back to the interwebs. I see a lot of posts with a #ootd but I know that most of them are aspirational versions of outfits of the day specifically curated to get you to buy more stuff. I want to document what I’m actually wearing in real-time with you all so that we can share ideas together.

Now, this post idea sounds really good in theory, but it is awkward as hell to take a picture of myself every morning before I head out the door. You’ll see that the first day had slippers, peanuts and Keith’s Bud Light from the night before in the shot! I have no idea how to pose or anything, but I’m genuine and I love my clothes and I hope you’ll find it funny, useful and/or interesting. And, as always, if it’s not for you, feel free to read something else that’s more your speed.

Monday:

monday outfit

My Thoughts:

It was my first day back from medical leave + I had to resign, so I wanted to be as comfortable as possible this day. I wore my trusty high top Van’s and some amazingly comfortable cigarette washed black jeans from the Gap. I usually don’t like to wear their jeans, but these ones fit so well and are so comfortable, I can’t get enough. I want to wear them all the time. I topped it all off with an old grey sweater from Asos and called it a day.

Tuesday

tuesday outfit

My thoughts:

I went a bit fancy this day and I can’t even explain why. I wore some cute paper bag pants I got on super clearance from Express for about $10, topped with a simple black turtleneck tee from Express. Can I tell you how happy I am that turtlenecks are back in style? I loved them in the 90s and I love them now. My boots are a pair I bought on sale at the Nordstrom rack for $50 a while back, but I bought them because they reminded me a bit of the boss boot from Everlane that I really like. I love Everlane’s quality and transparency, but I just can’t afford to buy their shoes right now.

Wednesday

wednesday outfit

My thoughts:

Warriors game!! I loved this outfit because I got support my beloved team at the game on Wednesday night, but I didn’t have to wear the bright yellow or blue that I typically wear. I paired it simple black skinny jeans from Old Navy + my favorite boots ever from Asos.

Thursday – Thanksgiving!

thursday outfit

My thoughts:

Can I just tell you how much I loved my Thanksgiving outfit yesterday? I felt like I slayed my ideal style with a seasonally relevant twist! I layered a beautiful mustard sweater from Madewell (last season, but here’s a similar one) over my very well-worn but still awesome Geneva dress from Universal Standard. Add my fav black boots from Asos as well as the most comfortable spanx opaque tights I got from Target and it was a winner, winner turkey dinner.

Friday:

My thoughts:

I have a terrible cold today, so I will not be wearing any sort of cute outfit at all. Sometimes I just have to keep it real, I’m in old pajamas and a zip up hoodie today and neither of them should see the light of day.

Thanks for reading along for my first week of ‘What I Wore’ outfits. What did you wear this week? Any new outfits that you loved? Let’s share style inspo with one another!

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The Internet is Magic, Vol III

November 29, 2019

The internet is a magical, beautiful place. Let’s peruse her together. Shall we?

lizzo british vogue

I still can’t get enough Lizzo. Seriously. She landed the December cover of British Vogue (vogue.co.uk) and she’s nominated for 8 Grammy’s. Her success is important to me. Momentous, really. Here’s a good article about why her Grammy (stylist.co.uk) noms matter so much.

 


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Did you see Mario Dedivanovic’s acceptance speech for the Artistic Achievement Award at the American Influencer Awards? Holy Moly. So much raw emotion. He seems like a beautiful, brave soul. Makes me sad that he lived so much of his life unable to express who he is as a person, but I am so happy that he feels free now.

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I’ve got Mr. Rogers on the brain a lot these days. It all started with this wonderful piece, ‘What Would Mr. Rogers Do‘ in the Atlantic by the original journalist that the new Tom Hanks movie about Mr. Rogers is based upon. I can’t stop thinking about Mr. Rogers’ unerring insistence upon kindness and love, something that I have so much more room to practice in my heart and life. Then, I read this wonderful piece in the New York Times about Tom Hanks as Mr. Rogers. That was so touching. This Mr. Rogers chapter of my life culminated in seeing Won’t You Be My Neighbor this weekend with Keith. Wow, what a wonderful time in my life. I have a lot to learn from the example of Mr. Rogers. I think we all do.

Rapper Meek Mill poses for a portrait in support of his latest release "Dreams Worth More Than Money" at Atlantic Records, on Thursday, July 2, 2015 in New York. (Photo by Dan Hallman/Invision/AP)

Okay, wow. If you haven’t already, please watch the Free Meek documentary on Amazon Prime. It was incredible. Wonderful storytelling, beautifully shot and a story of the justice system that we all need to better understand. My heart goes out to Meek Mill and countless others like him who have had been deeply traumatized and hurt by the obviously broken system of justice we have in place in this country. The problem isn’t only mass incarceration but also the probation and parole system and the way it strips people of their agency and their humanity. I received an important education through this series. I just signed up to learn more about the Reform charity Meek founded to address justice reform.

What about you, friends? Do you have any #internetismagic stories or links to share?

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My Thanksgiving 2019 Contributions

November 28, 2019

thanksgiving 2019

I distinctly remember my first time hosting a major holiday at my house. I cooked for six, almost everything homemade, and I spent about twelve hours in the kitchen, totally and completely frazzled. My feet hurt so badly I could barely walk afterwards. Instead of feeling proud or accomplished, I felt like I had been completely bamboozled. I realized that the whole hosting gig is a racket. You have to shop, prep, cook and clean for a bunch of people who only lightly appreciate it unless they also have completely wiped themselves out cooking and hosting a similar meal.

I love, love, love food but I decided right then that I would figure out my own way to host and entertain that doesn’t make me feel like I’ve been hit by a mack truck afterwards. My current solution is to pick a couple of stand-outs to make from scratch and then use shortcuts for all the rest. My sister is hosting us for Thanksgiving this year, but I volunteered to bring a hefty amount of sides because she is doing so much of the work. Even though I’m a guest, I’m adopting my own philosophy. I insisted on homemade cranberries and sweet potato casserole because they are probably my favorite dishes on the table. To balance it out, I got approval from my sis to bring Stove Top stuffing and Pillsbury crescent rolls.  Because, honestly? I think those store bought options are delicious.

We’re going to hit the road now, but I’ll be back later today with my gratitude list. What are you cooking? Please tell me you have help! It’s too much for one soul to handle. If you’re a lucky attendee without cooking responsibilities, I INSIST that you insist on washing the dishes as a big thank you to the chef.